What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

Hi,i am a 34 year old white woman,with afro american hair kinda. It used to be normal,natural curly when i was younger. My mom tried relaxers,and i think it permanently damaged my hair. I have had other relaxers,and they only last a day for some reason. I have tried cutting it super short,it only grows back the same way. It really bothers me,and i now wear a wig when i have to go out in public.I do not know what else to do. I have tried starting over from scratch,conditioners,etc. It's like its damaged forever. If anyone can help,please let me know,or is it okay to keep wearing a wig,since its the only thing that makes me feel better,but might be an issue if i ever want to start dating again.

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

First here are some products to try: Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Shampoo, Conditioner and Serum. Redken Curl Line, Rekden Heavy Cream, Biosilk gloss or CHI gloss drops ( to use after flat-iron

Find a reputable salon in your area, make an appointment for a consultation only ( then you can see what they have to offer and leave if you are not satisfied) ..see what anti-curl services they offer, what kind of cut they would suggest - and how long it would take you to style everyday. Be honest with your stylist, tell her how you feel about your hair and what you are willing or able to do everyday. And note that CHI irons are wonderful and with your texture and style of hair you wouldnt need to shampoo everyday unless your product make hair oily....Good Luck, I think with the right stylist you will not need your wigs anymore, you'll be confident enough to leave home with out it one! =-)

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

Umm I guess you can try getting a hair striaghtener Note ( you have to do it evryday)

Of course but ti works try getting the expensive kinds.

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

I am exactly in the same position- caucasian with crazy kinky hair. I use a product made by Palmers, it is a anti-frizz serum you put in your hair after it has been washed and is still wet, but not dripping. It has helped a great deal.

Also I use the gentlest shampoo I can find and use the richest conditioner that I can wash out.

Keeping hair shoulder length is good and manageable because you can tie it up when needed and leave it out when you wish.

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

have you talk to some one from a salon or beauty shop.

they will be able to tell you what products to use and should be able to help you.but contact a salon tell them the same thing you said about your hair.good luck

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

use bio silk or i guess shave it all off

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

I have extremely thick crazy hair too. First, get a CHI flatiron from faurok. they are expensive, but they really do change the way your hair looks, it smooths the follicle with ions or something like that. Another thing is to go and try some deep conditioning treatments from a salon. I used a relaxer once too...it was cool the first day, but it really damaged my hair until it was grown out. Stay away from chemicals like dyes, perms, and relaxers. But seriously, that chi was the best thing I could have ever done for my hair.

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

My mother has a white friend who had kinky hair. She used a mild relaxer and her hair turned out just fine.

What can be done about big,frizzy,kinky,hair,that grows back the same way if cut off?

I used to have the same problem.That's when I was younger though.They did have Frizz-ez or the like back then.These products work great for my daughter who also has very frizzy kinky hair.I always just got a curly perm,and that at least controlled the frizz.It took me a few times to learn to use no comb or fingers ,just shake real well after shampooing maybe this will work if you haven't already tried it.Good luck.